MY MEDIUMSHIP PROCESS
Ground
Our minds are always racing. Before each reading, I take a few moments to anchor myself to the present moment. I practice deep breathing and focus on clearing my mind from worries and stressors of the day.
Set Intentions
Intentions are everything. Every time I connect, I do so by aligning myself with love and light, ie source, spirit, creator, God. I set the intention to bring through kind, healing, impactful and productive messages from spirit for my sitter's highest good.
Become Aware
Awareness and trust is key. I quiet my own ego and become aware of the subtle nudges of spirit. This comes in different forms – pictures, words, sounds, emotions, a knowing, etc. I lean into my trust in spirit to deliver the evidence that will resonate the most with my sitter.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
What is Evidential Mediumship?
Evidential Mediumship is the act of setting the intention to provide verifiable evidence of the continuation of consciousness after an individual has left their physical body. This process is often seen as a triangle as the 3 points needed for a successful session are as follows: The spirit world(love!), the sitter (you!) and the medium(me!). The sitter verifies the information being brought through by the medium. This information is usually known by only the loved ones (personality traits, habits, special memories, dates, etc.) Often times, loved ones in spirit offer guidance and clarity on topics that you are presently going through - further proving their continued existence in the "afterlife".
How should I prepare for my reading?
No preparation on your part is necessary! The most important thing you can do is come to your reading with an open heart. I highly recommend ensuring you are in a quiet environment/free from distractions in order to get the most out of your session.
How soon after a loss should I get a reading?
When we lose someone we love it is very important to feel the emotions that the loss brings forward in order to move through them. Sometimes our grief can be so strong that even though we want a reading ASAP after the loss, it is quite possible we still need time and space to process. I have found that those in the spirit world know (often times better than we do) what it is we need. For this reason, I do not recommend getting a reading within the first 6 months after your loss.
What if the person I wanted to connect with does not come through?
There are many reasons this may happen. First and foremost, it is important that you understand that spirit knows what/who we need better than we do. I will always set the intention to bring through what is needed for your highest good. I have zero control over the spirit world but I will always try my best to connect with the individual you are wanting to hear from. Being open to hearing what comes from spirit is very important for a strong connection. Lastly, I never want you to think that just because my connection was not strong for the session, that means your loved one is not there. That could not be further from the truth. Sometimes, to put it simply, the vibes just aren't vibing. I am human - therefore I have off days! If I feel that I am not vibrationally where I should be in order to work for spirit then I will offer you a time to reschedule, refund your money and/or recommend another medium who you may vibe with a bit better!
How often should I get a mediumship reading?
Mediumship readings can provide important and special moments of healing. However, it is important to not rely too heavily on this service as it halts our ability to live the life our loved ones in spirit so desperately want us to live while we're still in the physical. I recommend not exceeding 2-3 readings a year. If I am doing my job right, then our session together will provide a reminder on the surface level and at the soul level that YOU always hold the power to make this connection with your loved ones in spirit. Our time together will be nothing but a reminder that we are all souls, having a human experience, and consciousness lives on well past the moment we leave our physical bodies.
Can you give anyone a reading?
That is certainly the goal! I've learned this work is alllll about ego. Being able to move my ego out of the way is necessary to give a great mediumship reading. I’ve found that the more I know you on a personal level the more my ego gets involved while I work. It comes from a place of not wanting to disappoint!! It is weird, I know! If I feel I would be unable to deliver due to our personal relationship, then I would be more than happy to recommend some pretty great mediums for you to work with ❤
